Transcription of a letter
from J.H. Tabor of Aberdeen, Washington
to Jenny Fleming of Forney, Texas,
written December 30, 1943. I have corrected most of the
punctuation and spelling to make it easier to read, but
left the words and phrasing as he wrote it. Joanna Morgan
12.30.43
J.H. Tabor
Aberdeen, Wash
403 E.1.ST
Mrs. Jenny Flemming
Forney Tex
Dear Jennie
I received your kind and much appreciated letter of the
20th. It was all news to me, as I had not heard anything
in regard to the folks for several years.
We us children was born in a log house in Allen County,
Kentucky about 18 miles I think a little south of east of
Bowling Green, not far from the Tennessee line. I was
told that I was about 4 months old when my father died.
About four years later, my mother married a man by the
name of Boucher. That part was a poor
country and so was the people. All our clothes was home
made. Nearly every farmer had a few sheep. They sheared
the sheep; the women washed and carded the wool. Perhaps
you dont know what carding is. Well, if you dont,
you have not lost very much. Then they spun the wool into
yarn by turning the wheel by hand that twisted the wool
and made it into threads. Then that was woven on hand
looms for different thicknesses of cloth.
They also raised flax. They went through the necessary
process and made linen cloth and also a little cotton.
The first cotton that we raised I remember of we picked
the cotton and all hands and children sat up at nights by
the fire place and picked the lint off of the seed by
hand and that was made into cloth for clothing.
The flax if they could get it, if not, they (used) cotton
and made long shirts for the children that came down near
their ankles: made a little Mother Hubbard dress and that
is all the garment we wore most of the time. If we got on
anything (else) we was considered dressed up.
I was seven years old before I ever saw a cook stove. Our
folks bought the first reaper as they called it that was
ever in that part. It layed the grain down and (it) was
bound by hand. The people came from miles around to see
it and it was looked as something wonderful which it was
as nearly all grain was cut with a scythe with fingeres
(sic) to hold the grain called a cradle.
That is a limestone country and a great place for caves.
There was some caves there that had been used by the
Indians, I think in DANIAL BOONES
time. I suspect you have read of him. They were walled up
in front with flat rocks and mud with a hole about 18
inches from the bottom, just larger for a man to crawl
in. They had never been molested when we left there.
There was also a lot of big mounds perhaps 20 feet across
at the bottom and 15 or 16 feet high and round. It was
said that Indians were buried there. They had not also
been molested when we left there.
In 1873 about September we left for Texas, my mother,
stepfather and us children also my uncle on my mothers
side by name JOE MEREDITH and his wife
and one small son. The first stop was in Dallas. We
stayed one night with some people by name of PARKER
that had left Kentucky some time before. Then we went
from there to Kaufman then south or southwest to some
folks of my uncles wife by name of WILLOWBY.
In that worst chills and marylary (sic) spot I ever saw
with a large house and I think two families lived in it
all sick with chills and fever. Not enough well ones to
wait on the sick ones. Some of the children would squat
down in the middle of the floor and perhaps it would be
some time before one that was well enough to get around
and clean up the mess. I never was in such a discouraging
disheartening place and I hope never to (be) again.
We stayed 1 or 2 weeks, then we went to a house about a
half mile east and a little north of Scyene a bunch of
timber, I think oak, and the house was in the grove. It
belonged to a man by name of MC COMMOS.
I think he lived in Scyene. From there my stepfather and
uncle hunted for a place to rent. They found one owner by
name of WORTHINGTON that joined your
granddad PINSON place on the north. here
was only a small log cabin on it. We waited in this place
for them to build a house along side of the log cabin. My
stepfather taken sick and then passed away. I think some
of the malary (sic) he got south of Kaufman. I think he
was buried on the plot of ground that the PARKERS
owned in the cemetery in Dallas.
When the house was done we moved there, made one crop
there then in the fall or winter my mother taken sick.
The WORTHINGTONS had a large house and
was good people. They taken our mother to their house and
I think done all they could for her. She soon passed away
and was buried in the PARKER plot in
Dallas, I think by (the) side of her husband.
Old grandpaw PINSON knew something of
our condition and he being a good man built a house near
his on his farm. We moved there, lived there one year and
his daughter Helen, the mother of the HALEY
children, lived in Monteaguge (?) county and
lost her husband with some small children and Grandpaw
PINSON wanted them near him so he had a farm
about half mile east and one and one half mile north of
his home place so we moved there and the HAILEY
near him. (That I think is the log cabin that was moved
to Dallas.) It was made out of cedar logs what would be
called large logs then. That was in 1876. We lived there
one year or two, I am not positive which. Then your
parents was married in that house and Scy (sic) was also
born there.
After they married, Jesse went some to
school and Sammy worked for ranchers. I
lived with the folks there one year, then your dad bought
the place north of Forney. It was a hog waller place
nearly all in small timber and brush, a lot of it what is
called elm. It was sure hard to clear and get in
cultivation, but was good land after it was done.
I lived there for one year with them then I went back to
Dallas county near where we first settled and farmed one
year then in eastern Texas near Texarkana and made
railroad ties for the Southern Pacific when they was
build to California. Later I bought 100 acres in the
Valley View neighborhood for $30 per acre and paid my
fourth down. Then my job was to get it payed for. There
was 80 in cultivation. I usually had about 10 acres in
wheat, 10 in corn, 10 in oats and the other 50 in cotton.
I never hired any help except in picking the cotton. I
worked long days and sometimes part of the night when I
was busy. Nearly always hauled cotton to the gin at
night.
I raised about 50 bails one year but taken sick and a lot
of it went to waste. We usually got from 6 to 7 cents a
pound and we did not get time and a half for 40 hours a
week either.
When I was sick the folks moved me to their house. I was
told that for 91 days I never was rid of the fever as
much as 24 hours at one time. I had the tyford (sic) and
malaery (sic) both, just one back set after another. Dr. Newt
Shand was my doctor, and he was very faithful or
not likely I would have pulled through. I think perhaps
you was a baby then. That, I think, was the winter of
1886 and 87 or 1887 and 88.
I came to Washington later. I sold the place to your
father, I dont know if you have it yet or not. I
followed mining for a good many years. In 1895 I was
mining in Cripple Creek, Colorado. In the winter of 1896
I visited the folks in Forney. I think you were about 10
years old then. I was in the interior of Alaska 54 years
this last summer. Was at Nome on the Bering Sea in 1900.
I have been in a good many places where all were
strangers to me when I went there. Read Proverbs 18, 24th
verse. He has always been a friend to me and why should
not I be thankful to him.
I have had a little ahead 2 or 3 times but always lost it
with out any fault of mine and perhaps it is best. If I
had made some money it may be that I would have put in
all my time trying to make more and forgotten my God and
Savior.
Now I have written a lot to you that you may not be
interested in and you are the first and the only one that
I ever made any attempt to give a sketch of our past life
and it is a sure thing that now I am the only one living
that noes (sic) but very little about it.
You said you liked to do what you could for your mother.
Well, I never have gotten acquainted with any woman that
I thought equaled her in hard work, patience, a friend to
everybody. Usually if she could not say any thing good
for a person she did not say any thing.
Well, I will close. May the good Lord bless you and keep
you till we meet here or in the place he has prepared for
us.
Your Uncle.
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