Case one of two
Court of Appeals of Kentucky.
BOWMAN et al. v. BOWMAN.
May 31, 1949.
ACTION: Judgment affirmed in part and reversed in part, with directions.
Appeal from Circuit Court, Clay County; Ray C. Lewis, Judge. Action for divorce by Eunice Bowman against Don. M. Bowman, wherein defendant filed a counterclaim. From a judgment granting defendant a divorce and awarding him custody of minor child of the parties, plaintiff and another appeal. CAMMACK, Justice. In this action Eunice Bowman sought a divorce from her husband, Don Bowman, on the ground of cruel and inhuman treatment. She asked also for custody of their eight year old daughter, alimony for herself and maintenance for the child and a separation of property rights. In his counterclaim Mr. Bowman asked for a divorce on the ground of cruel and inhuman treatment. He also sought custody of the child. The chancellor granted Mr. Bowman a divorce and awarded him custody of the child. He awarded Mrs. Bowman $600.00 and an additional $100.00 for her attorney's fee. Both parties prayed an appeal from the judgment, but only Mrs. Bowman has filed an appeal in this Court. On this appeal she is insisting that she was entitled to a divorce and alimony and should have been awarded the custody of the child and an allowance for her support. She contends also that she was entitled to one-half of a jointly owned piece of property and that the allowance for her attorney's fee is insufficient. The Bowmans were married in 1923. They have two married daughters in addition to the young girl. Mr. Bowman owned only a small amount of personal property at the time of the marriage. Mr. Bowman's father gave him 50 acres of land in Jackson County. Thirty acres of this tract were sold for $1000.00. In 1933, Mr. Bowman purchased a 10-acre tract of land for $750.00. The deed to this tract was taken in the names of Mr. and Mrs. Bowman, although there is no evidence that Mrs. Bowman paid any part of the purchase price. The parties were making their home on this tract at the time of the separation in January, 1948. About 1935, Mr. Bowman began the operation of a small one-room country store, which he continued to operate until he became physically and mentally ill in 1946 or 1947. During Mr. Bowman's illness Mrs. Bowman took charge of the store and ran it in her own name. She changed his bank account in Manchester to one in her own name in McKee. Apparently the parties had lived together peaceably until the time of Mr. Bowman's illness. There is some proof showing that Mrs. Bowman mistreated Mr. Bowman while he was ill, but on the other hand Mrs. Bowman's testimony shows that she cared for her husband in a patient and considerate manner. Mr. Bowman said his wife squandered some of his money during his illness by buying unnecessary furnishings for their home and also gave large quantities of merchandise to her family. When Mr. Bowman recovered he again took charge of the store, changed the bank account to his own name and, apparently, refused to permit Mrs. Bowman to have anything to do with his business. The charges that Mrs. Bowman purchased unnecessary furnishings for the home appear to be groundless. Though there was constant bickering between the Bowmans up until the time Mrs. Bowman says her husband ran her away from home in January, 1948, she continued to live with him. Mrs. Bowman said her husband was continually finding fault with her and her work and that on one occasion he struck her. When Mrs. Bowman went to Manchester to file this action G. D. Ferguson, a neighbor, went with her. Mr. Bowman attempted to show improper relations between Mrs. Bowman and Mr. Ferguson. In brief, Mr. Ferguson was seen around the store on numerous occasions during Mr. Bowman's illness and was seen there less frequently thereafter. One witness, a kinsman of Mr. Bowman, said he saw Mr. Ferguson with his arms around Mrs. Bowman on one occasion, but the evidence relating to the character and reputation of this witness would not warrant the giving of much credence to his testimony. There had been some talk about Mrs. Bowman and Mr. Ferguson in the neighborhood, but no one accused them of improper relations. We are not impressed with the seriousness of the charges of either of the parties in support of their claim for a divorce, so we are not prepared to say that the chancellor erred in granting a divorce to Mr. Bowman. It is true that the deed to the 10-acre tract of land was taken in the name of both parties, but the evidence supports the finding that it was purchased by Mr. Bowman. It was proper, therefore, for the chancellor to restore this property to Mr. Bowman. Under the circumstances Mrs. Bowman was not entitled to alimony. The maximum figure placed upon Mr. Bowman's worth by Mrs. Bowman's testimony was $6800.00, while his testimony showed that he had an estate of some $3100.00. The chancellor allowed Mrs. Bowman the sum of $600.00. There is no cross appeal from that allowance so the award must stand. The attorney's fee is not a large one, but we have concluded that it should not be increased. The question of the custody of the eight year old girl is a more serious one. This Court has held consistently that the custody of a child of tender years, especially a girl, should be awarded the mother unless it is shown that she is a person of unfit character, or that she can not provide it with a suitable home. It is not shown that Mrs. Bowman could not provide the child with a suitable home. Even in the light of all the evidence bearing upon the relations of Mrs. Bowman and Mr. Ferguson, we think the record fails to show that Mrs. Bowman is a person of unfit character to have custody of her infant daughter. The chancellor's opinion and judgment show that he gave some weight to letters which he received from the married daughters of the Bowmans wherein they stated that, even though they had taken the side of their mother at the trial, they had learned that facts had been misrepresented to them and they were of the opinion that their father should have custody of their young sister. These letters, of course, were not incorporated into the record and are entitled to no weight in our conclusion on the child custody question. For the reasons given all phases of the judgment are affirmed, except as to the question of the custody of the infant daughter. Mrs. Bowman should be awarded her custody, with proper provision being made for her maintenance and for visitations on the part of Mr. Bowman. Ky.,1949 BOWMAN v. BOWMAN 221 S.W.2d 71, 310 Ky. 509

Case two of two
Court of Appeals of Kentucky.
BOWMAN v. BOWMAN.
Oct. 31, 1950.
ACTION: Judgment reversed with directions with judgment be entered giving custody of child to plaintiff.
Eunice Bowman (now Smith) brought an action for divorce against Don M. Bowman, and the defendant filed a counter-claim. The defendant was granted a divorce and was awarded custody of a minor child, but that portion of the judgment which gave custody of the child to the defendant was reversed and mandate was entered giving custody of the child to the plaintiff. Thereafter the defendant filed a motion that he be granted custody of the child and ground of changed conditions. The Circuit Court of Clay County, Ray C. Lewis, J., rendered a judgment for the defendant, and the plaintiff appealed. The Court of Appeals, Sims, C. J., held that evidence was insufficient to establish such changed conditions as to entitle defendant to custody of the child and that defendant was required to support the child, even though plaintiff had custody. SIMS, Chief Justice. This appeal is an aftermath of Bowman v. Bowman, 310 Ky. 509, 221 S.W.2d 71, wherein we affirmed that part of the judgment granting a divorce to the husband and ordering him to pay the wife $600 in satisfaction of the property right, but reversed so much of the judgment as gave to the father custody of an 8 year old daughter, Shirley, and directed the chancellor to place Shirley in the custody of her mother and make proper provision for the child's maintenance and visitation upon the part of the father. Judgment on the mandate was entered on Nov. 26, 1949, giving the custody of the child to her mother and directing the father to pay to the mother the sum of '_____ per month' for the support of the child, beginning Dec. 1, 1949, and to continue the payments until further orders of the court. The father was further ordered to pay the cost of the appeal. Upon notice, the father on Nov. 28, 1949, filed motion to continue the case on the docket and averred that the conditions of the parties had changed and he had discovered new and important evidence by which he could show the mother was not a fit person to have the custody of the child. This motion was traversed and after a hearing before the chancellor on Dec. 31, 1949, a judgment was entered on Feb. 23, 1950, giving custody of Shirley to her father. The mother prosecutes this appeal. The change of conditions chiefly relied upon by the father is that after the divorce was granted on July 21, 1948, the mother married her present husband on Aug. 26, 1948. However, Shirley's father married his present wife in the following October, the exact date he could not remember. Neither was acquainted with nor had met their new spouse before the divorce was granted. It hardly behooves the husband to complain of his former wife's marriage so soon after the divorce since he married within two months after her second marriage. What so strongly impresses the author of this opinion is that both could so soon forget the unhappiness of their first marriage and could again enter into wedlock with comparative strangers. This would certainly lead the uninitiated to believe that marriage has great allure as well as great illusions. We will not dwell on the delights and disappointments of the marital status but will direct our attention to the record and determine if it presents any change in the conditions of these parties to justify the chancellor in taking the custody of this little girl from her mother and placing it with her father. Mr. Bowman's conduct has been far from commendable. He disposed of considerable real estate for the purpose of paying his debts, as he testified, yet he did not pay his first wife the $600 this court ordered him to pay her. Furthermore, his residence and ten acres of land upon which it stands is now in the name of his second wife and he does not say how she obtained title, except that he did not convey it to her. At the time this court rendered its opinion in the divorce case, Bowman and his present wife and Shirley were living in Cincinnati, Ohio, and when Shirley's mother sought the custody of the girl in Cincinnati in conformity with the mandate of this court, Bowman brought his present wife and Shirley back to Clay County, Kentucky, 'because I didn't want to be in court up there'. The mother and her present husband live in a comfortable home on a farm near Hamilton, Ohio. He is employed on the farm at a salary of $90 per month and in addition thereto receives milk, eggs, the right to raise a garden and is furnished a good house, including telephone and utilities. Furthermore, there is a good school in the community with bus transportation furnished the children. The step-father, Tinsley Smith, testified he desires to have Shirley in his home and expressed a willingness to support the child if her father fails so to do. The other side of the picture shows the father of Shirley admits his health is bad; that he has no property or income and his greatest objection to the mother having the child is that his daughter will be 200 miles away from him and in the home with a step-parent. He seems to have overlooked the fact that if he be given the custody of Shirley, she would be in the home of her step- mother and 200 miles away from her mother. During the hearing the chancellor asked Mrs. Smith if she wanted the custody of the child but wanted Mr. Bowman to pay for Shirley's support. Also, Mr. Smith was asked this question on cross-examination by counsel for Mr. Bowman. The law is that the father is responsible for the support of his child regardless of whether he or the mother has the custody. Certainly, the desire of Mrs. Smith and her husband that Mr. Bowman support Shirley is not unreasonable and should not militate against Mrs. Smith having custody of her daughter. Shirley testified upon the hearing before the chancellor that she wanted to remain with her father, although she admitted that in a letter to her mother she had inserted a slip of paper on which she had written, 'I wish you would get me mother'. She repeatedly refused to say why she had written these words to her mother. During the divorce proceeding Shirley had expressed a desire to remain with her mother. Shirley further testified upon the hearing to determine which parent should have custody of her that during the divorce proceedings her mother had tried to get her to burn her father's home. This statement by the child is not impressive due to the fact that at the very time the mother was seeking a property settlement from her husband, a man of limited means, it is hardly probable she would desire to destroy property out of which she was seeking a recovery. Shirley had been in the custody of her father since her parents were divorced in July 1948, and a careful reading of the record convinces us that she was under his domination at the time she testified upon the hearing to determine her custody. While the expressions of the desire of an infant of tender years as to with which parent it would rather live may be given consideration, they are not binding on courts which look to the welfare of the child rather than to its desires. As we said in the divorce case, Bowman v. Bowman, 310 Ky. 509, 221 S.W.2d 71, 72, 'This Court has held consistently that the custody of a child of tender years, especially a girl, should be awarded the mother unless it is shown that she is a person of unfit character, or that she can not provide it with a suitable home.' No evidence was produced against the mother's character upon the hearing before the chancellor and all the proof is that she and her present husband can provide a wholesome home for Shirley. As there was no change in the conditions of the parties to justify the chancellor in over-riding our opinion that the mother should have custody of this child, his judgment in awarding the custody to the father must be reversed. The question is raised in the father's brief that the mother will take the child out of this jurisdiction to her present home in Ohio, which will cause the Kentucky courts to lose jurisdiction over the child and will also work a hardship on the father in exercising his right of visitation. The judgment awarding custody to the mother by reciting that the Clay Circuit Court retains its jurisdiction over the child and has put Shirley in the custody of her mother in Ohio subject to further orders of the court will subject both the mother and daughter to any further orders the chancellor may see fit to make in this action. As to the hardship or inconvenience on the father in exercising his right of visitation with his child living with her mother in Ohio, that question is answered in Duncan v. Duncan, where we said that the court must look to the welfare of the child in awarding custody and not to the inconverience worked on the father in visiting his child. The judgment is reversed with directions that one be entered giving the custody of Shirley to her mother with right of reasonable visitation awarded the father who will be directed to pay a reasonable sum for the support of his daughter. Ky. 1950 BOWMAN v. BOWMAN 233 S.W.2d 1020, 313 Ky. 806

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